91原创

Skip to content
Join our Newsletter

Naomi Lakritz: Platitudes won鈥檛 prevent children鈥檚 deaths

There鈥檚 an aura of d茅j脿 vu about the report on the death of five-year-old Phoenix Sinclair. Everyone is saying the same things they always do after inquiries like these.

There鈥檚 an aura of d茅j脿 vu about the report on the death of five-year-old Phoenix Sinclair. Everyone is saying the same things they always do after inquiries like these.

Phoenix is the Manitoba child who was murdered nine years ago after being abused by her mother and her mother鈥檚 boyfriend, and whose death wasn鈥檛 noticed by child welfare authorities for nine months.

An inquiry headed by commissioner Ted Hughes of Victoria cost $14 million and found that throughout Phoenix鈥檚 short, tragic life, child and family services officials received 13 notices about concerns for the little girl鈥檚 safety.

Hughes also found that 鈥渇iles were opened and closed, often without a social worker ever laying eyes on Phoenix.鈥

While Phoenix鈥檚 mother, Samantha Kematch and boyfriend Karl McKay, are serving life sentences for her killing, none of the individuals involved with this case have apparently lost their jobs.

One of Hughes鈥檚 recommendations is for Manitoba to show leadership in the issue of aboriginal children being in care across the country in disproportionate numbers. Nothing new there.

Meanwhile, Grand Chief Derek Nepinak of the Assembly of Manitoba Chiefs thinks his people don鈥檛 want to see more centralizing of a child-welfare system that removes kids from their culture, and he talked of 鈥渁 genocide that鈥檚 continuing to happen.

鈥淭he precedent for apprehension of children against the will of families started in the residential school era. It鈥檚 still happening today.鈥

Yes, the child and family services agency showed shocking and reprehensible negligence in Phoenix鈥檚 case. But this is hardly the occasion for Nepinak to complain about kids being removed from their culture. Phoenix lived on Manitoba鈥檚 Fisher River reserve. She was in her culture.

But her mom and stepfather were not taking her to powwows and teaching her about her heritage. They were shooting her with BB guns, beating her and forcing her to eat her own vomit.

Phoenix absolutely should have been taken from them and placed permanently in another home 鈥 whether aboriginal or not 鈥 where she would have been safe and cared for and loved.

And if, as Nepinak says, children are being apprehended 鈥渁gainst the will of families,鈥 then it鈥檚 up to those families to care for their children properly so they are not apprehended.

Nepinak talked of wanting a focus on elders鈥 expertise and more support for a generation still suffering the effects of the residential-school era.

But where were the elders at Fisher River? Why didn鈥檛 any of them intervene to stop Phoenix鈥檚 abuse?

And as for support for parents in the wake of the residential schools, they have to be willing to seek help. It can鈥檛 be forced on anyone. Change has to start with each person saying: 鈥淲hat happened to me was wrong, but I鈥檓 going to do things differently. I鈥檓 going to get the help I need to be the best parent I can possibly be.鈥

The support Nepinak talked about is already there.

Health Canada provides a 24-hour crisis hotline for residential-school survivors and their families, which helps them get access to mental-health services through the Indian Residential Schools Resolution Health Support Program, and get assistance with cultural and emotional support, counselling and even transportation if the services needed aren鈥檛 available locally.

Until parents accept that they alone are the agents of change for the next generation of aboriginal children, all the words swirling around the Phoenix Sinclair case will remain useless platitudes to be evoked again at the next inquiry.